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Empower your relationship through expert couples counseling, Strengthen communication, rebuild trust

What do we do in Couples Counseling?

With one of our therapists, 

you and your partner can continue to develop 

your intimacy, respect, and affection 

as you gain further empathy and understanding, 

and rekindle the friendship that formed your relationship.  

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We focus on what seems to be a 

source of distress while 

providing an opportunity to practice new skills 

to effectively hear one another, 

eliminate the ‘blame game’ 

and heal from lingering hurts.




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Individual and conjoint sessions are utilized to:

Tackle the ‘hot’ topics more effectively

Improve Communication Issues 

Address Intimacy and Trust Issues 

Navigate Conflict More Effectively 

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Explore Relationship Goals and Dreams 

Become a Better Partner

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The Process

Conversations that lead to healing

Conversations that lead to healing

You and your partner work toward rebuilding your foundation, restoring the intimacy, respect, and affection, gaining further 

insight, empathy and understanding, and revitalizing 

the friendship that formed your relationship. 
 

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Conversations that lead to healing

Conversations that lead to healing

Conversations that lead to healing

Our therapists will address the hot topics causing distance while raising awareness of the communication difficulties and relational patterns bringing you to your current impasse.  



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The Skills

Conversations that lead to healing

The Skills

You'll learn how to understand the 'relationship dance', your emotional triggers and where they come from, while learning how to fight, how to complain, to resolve conflict more effectively, improve your communication so that you can go be free of the problematic patterns which have kept you stuck for so long.  

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What If My Partner Is Reluctant to Attend Sessions?

         Often one partner is more motivated to attend sessions than the other, 

and then there are times when one partner flat out refuses. 


Resistance to therapy can be common due to a number of reasons:
 

The stigma associated with therapy 

Concern about what may be addressed within sessions 

Worry we will move toward separation or divorce 

Deep feelings of embarrassment 

Feeling ‘forced’ to attend sessions 

Discussing your problems with someone outside of the relationship 

                                                                                             


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Relationship and Marriage Counseling can be more effective when both parties are present, however, our therapists can be of support to help you work through the relationship distress.  


 Sessions will focus on improving your communication 

and conflict resolution skills, learning about your 

negative patterns impacting the relationship, 

and discovering and expressing your needs in a healthier way.  

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 Perhaps as begin to create positive changes within your relationship your partner might be motivated to join you for a family session in the future.  


If this does not happen, we are hopeful the personal growth within sessions will improve the quality of your experience within your relationship.  

What if things don't improve?

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The 'D' Word

  

Our therapists will work with you and your partner to improve 

the quality of the relationship and address the above issues 

so long as that continues to be your goal.  


However, there are times when you or your partner 

may be considering a separation or divorce.  


Through a specific protocol, our therapists can support 

you and your partner as you work toward deciding to continue to work on the relationship or move towards termination. 


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Healing Communication Woes: How Couples Therapy Can Restore Your Relationship

Stuck in a Conflict Cycle?

Get Unstuck Today!

Are you and your partner caught in a cycle of communication breakdowns, feeling increasingly distressed, disconnected, and anxious in your relationship? 


If so, couples therapy could be the transformative journey you need to repair and revitalize your connection. 


Understanding Communication Difficulties in Relationships

Effective communication is the lifeblood of any healthy relationship. 


When communication breaks down, it can lead to a host of challenges, including misunderstandings, resentment, and emotional distance. 


Common signs of communication difficulties in couples:

  • Frequent Arguments: Arguments escalate quickly, leading to unresolved conflicts.
  • Avoidance and Silence: Partners withdraw or avoid discussing important issues.
  • Feeling Misunderstood: Both partners struggle to understand each other's perspectives.
  • Lack of Emotional Connection: Emotional intimacy and closeness diminish over time.

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How Couples Therapy Can Help

 Couples therapy provides a structured and supportive environment for couples to address communication difficulties and cultivate healthier interaction patterns. Here's how therapy can benefit couples struggling with communication issues: 

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Creating a Safe Space

Creating a Safe Space

Creating a Safe Space

In therapy, couples have a safe and neutral space to express themselves openly without fear of judgment. 


A skilled therapist facilitates constructive dialogue and guides the conversation towards resolution.

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Identifying Patterns

Creating a Safe Space

Creating a Safe Space

 Therapists help couples identify negative communication patterns such as criticism, defensiveness, mutual blame, withdrawal and stonewalling. Understanding these patterns is the first step towards positive change. 

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Skill Building

Creating a Safe Space

Deeper Exploration

 Therapists teach couples practical communication skills, including active listening, empathy, assertiveness, and conflict resolution techniques. These skills empower couples to express themselves authentically and connect more deeply. 

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Deeper Exploration

Creating a Safe Space

Deeper Exploration

 Therapy explores underlying issues contributing to communication difficulties, such as past experiences, attachment styles, and unmet emotional needs. By addressing these root causes, couples can heal and grow together. 

What to Expect in Couples Therapy

Initial Assessment

Experiential Skill Building

Collaborative Goal Setting

The therapy journey typically begins with an initial assessment, where the therapist gathers information about the couple's relationship history, communication challenges, and goals for therapy.


Collaborative Goal Setting

Experiential Skill Building

Collaborative Goal Setting

 Couples collaborate with the therapist to establish clear goals for therapy, focusing on improving communication, enhancing emotional connection, and resolving specific issues. 

Experiential Skill Building

Experiential Skill Building

Experiential Skill Building

Therapy sessions involve skill-building exercises tailored to address the couple's unique needs. Couples practice new communication techniques and receive feedback from the therapist. 

Exploration and Reflection

Exploration and Reflection

Experiential Skill Building

Therapy encourages exploration of underlying emotions and triggers behind communication difficulties. Couples reflect on past experiences and learn to reinterpret each other's behaviors. 

Homework Assignments

Exploration and Reflection

Homework Assignments

Therapists often assign homework exercises to reinforce new skills and deepen understanding between sessions. Consistent practice outside of therapy sessions accelerates progress. 

Gradual Progress

Exploration and Reflection

Homework Assignments

Over time, couples experience gradual improvements in communication, emotional intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. Therapy provides a roadmap for navigating challenges and fostering growth. 

What's Your Role in Couple's Therapy

How do I participate?

As a couple engaging in therapy, your active participation is essential for interrupting negative interaction patterns and fostering positive change. Here's how you can contribute to the therapeutic process:

 

Openness and Vulnerability

Be open and vulnerable with your partner and therapist. Share your thoughts, feelings, and concerns honestly without holding back.


Active Listening

Practice active listening by fully engaging in conversations and seeking to understand your partner's perspective without judgment.


Willingness to Learn

Approach therapy with a willingness to learn and try new communication techniques. Be open to constructive feedback from your therapist.


Consistent Effort

Consistency is key to success in therapy. Commit to attending sessions regularly and completing assigned homework tasks between sessions.


Patience and Understanding

Therapy is a journey of growth and healing. Be patient with yourselves and each other as you navigate challenges and celebrate progress along the way.



The Positive Impact of Couples Therapy

Embarking on a couples therapy journey can have profound and positive effects on your life and relationship:


  • Improved Communication Skills
  • Enhanced Emotional Intimacy
  • Conflict Resolution
  • Relationship Satisfaction
  • Personal Growth


Gain self-awareness and personal growth through introspection and reflection.


If ongoing communication difficulties are causing distress and disconnection in your relationship, couples therapy offers a path towards healing, growth, and restoration. 


Take the courageous step towards seeking professional support and investing in the future of your relationship.


Together with a skilled therapist, you can interrupt negative interaction patterns, cultivate healthier communication habits, and revitalize your connection with your partner. Embrace the opportunity to rewrite your relationship narrative and create a fulfilling future together.

Transform Your Relationship Today!

SCHEDULE A TELEPHONE CONSULTATION TODAY

Semillas Counseling PLLC


4001 N Wolcott Ave, Chicago IL, 60613


645 N Michigan Ave, Chicago, IL, 60611


773 789-9775


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